tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6736414.post676447655304752214..comments2024-02-20T17:22:43.089-06:00Comments on The Literary Assassin: she never bothers with people she hatesHollyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17764623327385255044noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6736414.post-10807746706561697432008-09-30T20:27:00.000-05:002008-09-30T20:27:00.000-05:00I often find out, after I've become friends with a...<I>I often find out, after I've become friends with a woman, that she was initially intimidated by me. So I've made attempts over the years, to be more positive and pleasant, to sweeten my tone of voice, and smile.</I><BR/><BR/>I know how you feel. I'm a big faker too. I can talk soup with other women, but I find it exhausting most of the time. At parties by the end of the night I usually end up Lisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08226550966725485156noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6736414.post-80506232081940021692008-09-19T13:08:00.000-05:002008-09-19T13:08:00.000-05:00Cool! Thanks!Cool! Thanks!Hollyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17764623327385255044noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6736414.post-31042694491549402622008-09-19T11:59:00.000-05:002008-09-19T11:59:00.000-05:00oh, and I'm adding you to my blogroll, if you don'...oh, and I'm adding you to my blogroll, if you don't mind.bredahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00216098318849287384noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6736414.post-41737367716032278312008-09-19T11:58:00.000-05:002008-09-19T11:58:00.000-05:00I often find out, after I've become friends with a...<I>I often find out, after I've become friends with a woman, that she was initially intimidated by me. So I've made attempts over the years, to be more positive and pleasant, to sweeten my tone of voice, and smile.</I><BR/><BR/>Yes! that's it exactly. For years I've done this - and felt like a fraud every time, like a bad actor. I keep wondering when the other women will catch on.bredahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00216098318849287384noreply@blogger.com